Yesterday I saw a really very horrible scene which scared me a lot that I couldn’t sleep well all the night. I could see that scene very clearly in my nightmare as if it was happening to me or to any of my dear one. Wait! it was not any horror movie’s scene in which a vampire suddenly appears and bite a person and s/he too becomes vampire and then both of them started sucking blood of other’s together. Although, it was much alike that when I saw few pupils (who seems to be at some well grade Cambridge school) beating their own school mate in the name of ragging. I hope all of you know about this phenomenon ragging in schools, colleges and universities which gives the forcible authority to the senior students of the institute to make fun of the new comers. As long as I perceived the purpose of this custom or tradition -which al most every institute is following nowadays- is to welcome new students in a relaxed mood and to let them introduced and befriend with the senior students so that they may not feel hesitant or strange in a new place and will start their new academic year in a chilled way. But what I saw in the t.v screens had no justification where one student was being beaten and humiliated by his fellows. The most weird thing that no one from school administration was there to stop them. Their uniforms and the building behind them tells that it was not an ordinary government “taat school” where students are not taught properly of etiquettes and no one bothers that how they are behaving with each other. In fact those students were -if I am not wrong- seems to belong elite class or at least upper middle class of the society. Children of these classes of society are highly sophisticated, well trained and they know the etiquettes of living in a high profile society -perhaps the students in this video keep these qualities only to show in front of their parents or with in their circle-. Psyche of children is a big big matter of concern for their parents so they let their children to live their own lives in their own way. Obviously they want their heads high and to be confident so usually they do not interfere in their personal matters. There is another reason too behind giving them a full freedom that parents are too busy in bringing all the luxuries of life in their homes so that their child do not feel complexed and poor. While making sure that their lives are luxurious -and their child have latest model of iphone and mac book and that they always wear branded/ classy dresses-, usually they ran short of time in giving full attention to the training and personality development of their child. I don’t know what others think but for me a well groomed personality is not that one behaves very sophisticated in front of their relatives and the one who is very confident in giving prompt replies also knows that what thing suits in a more classy way and is having a latest make of mobile and car in hand but s/he does not have the respect for others and always looks down to them. May be all these aforementioned things matter. However if one do not have the sense of responsibility that how an action or even a single word of them could ruins other’s life and how it could badly hurt the person before them all these thing goes in vain. One could presume the trauma in which the poor boy who is being victimized of the “classy humiliation”. Perhaps one day he too becomes like them because vampire of our society have bite him. God knows better if he could pull his self out of this catastrophic incidence or he too will become the vampire.
Our countries is blessed with bulk of youngsters. Round about 60% of our population is below the age of 24 years. Just imagine that if this youth is properly trained and educated, than with in 15-20 years Pakistan could reach the sky high position in the map of world. Unfortunately majority of our youth is busy in facebooking, twitting and humiliating others.